Not to trivialize anyone’s problems, but here are few time-saving answers to questions I get FREQUENTLY:
Q: “Does ____ like me?”
A: They either don’t, or else they’re even more bashful than you are — otherwise you’d already know the answer. (If the latter, you’re just going to have to corner them. Go get ‘em, Querent!)
Q: “Will _____ and I ever get back together?”
A: Gurrrrrrrl, you’d probly better hope not.
Q: “Will my illness get better?”
A. I don’t make guesses about medical issues on this site. Wanna talk about how to mentally/spiritually cope with illness and/or death? Let’s rock.
Q: “I feel really depressed/restless/hopeless.”
A. Remember, it is January, the darkest most horrible time. If you’re getting proper sunlight, exercise, and sleep and you still feel this way, then you should probably talk to your doctor. If there’s something specific that’s getting you down, then by all means ask, and be specific — that’s why I’ve enabled anonymous posting.